NSFW: TMI Tuesday

Pick your next sexual encounter. Only pick one, then tell us why that is your choice.

  • Blindfolded during oral sex
  • Sex in a hot tub
  • Sex in an elevator
  • Phonesex
  • Bringing in a third party

 Blindfolded during oral sex. It feels better not knowing what’s happening next. I only do this with someone I trust.

When could having sex with an ex be a good thing?

I do not have a problem having sex with one of my exes and with someone I used to date (but on open relationship). It’s just sex anyway. It is good to express your desires and achieve them with someone familiar. The only thing that would put it on pause is if I am seeing anyone exclusively. Whether my ex is in a relationship, it’s his responsibility, I believe.

Have you ever had sex in a public toilet? No judgment. (Ooh you nasty!)

A couple of times, but it’s the clean kind.

Car sex is hot or not?

It’s hot for men. But I never liked it, really. It’s uncomfortable.

What is the most appealing thing about you?

I know I look okay… but there’s always someone prettier and sexier than me in school or at the office. I was told by men (friends and former lovers) that what they liked most about me is the way I carried myself and how I make myself get seen without actually doing something. That’s what they say, but I can never see it, I don’t know. I feel like I am the underdog most of the time in this regard.

Bonus: Some time ago in Geneva, Switzerland, a coffee shop opened where you can get a hot, delicious cup of coffee, with a side of hot, delicious blowjob. That’s right after you order your coffee, you use an iPad to select the sex worker that you want to have given you the blowjob. A – Would you visit this coffee shop? B – Would you get the blowjob?

Okay so let’s replace it with cunnilingus on the side of coffee. If it’s in Geneva, I’d probably visit this coffee shop and would get the side offer. I mean, it’s probably a one time experience and I’ve always been curious.

TMI Tuesday

1. First question relates to the photo above–what is it?

Is it a salmon fillet?

2. Should we be signaling our existence to alien life? Why?

No because we’ve got too much on our plate already. I don’t think we can take more Area 51 kind of shit.

3. What is one thing you do not understand about yourself?

Why am I attracted to obnoxious guys.

4. What weird food combinations do you really enjoy?

I do not real enjoy weird combos. I love it conventional. I find weird food combinations disgusting making it inedible.

5. What are two of your go-to strategies to help make big decisions?

What would my mom do?

Or I’d ask my bestfriend, the wisest YODA-type person in my life

Bonus: How replaceable are you?


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

TMI Tuesday #1

It’s my first TMI entry for 2021, wishing myself confidence in answering the below:

1. What was the best part of your holiday season?

It’s having an excuse to be lazy and eat a lot.

2. Did you have the opportunity to get down and dirty over the holidays? Please share.

Oh no, I’ve been such a bore! I am keeping my safe distance from anyone.

3. You receive a gift from a family member that is exactly what you DID NOT want. Do you:
a. Smile politely and bin it at the first opportunity?
b. Say thank you and re-gift it next year?
c. Do some detective work and return it at the first opportunity?
d. Try and tactfully suggest something more appropriate for next time?

None of the above. I usually find ways to like the gifts I receive.

4. Sex toys as gifts yea or nay? Was there a time when you unexpectedly opened something R-rated in front of your family? Tell us about it.

No, my family gifts are wholesome so it’s perfectly safe to open anything coming from within our circle. My friends are a different story although we did not meet this holiday season due to the pandemic. We do gift each other toys every once in a while especially for whoever is single. Works for me because I am typically shy to buy for myself. I don’t know. People won’t know or care whether it’s mine or someone else’s but there’s certain level of shame whenever I feel like ordering for personal use. But I wouldn’t mind receiving and gifting.

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5. What is the best present your significant other has given you?

I am lucky because whenever I am in a relationship, they tend to be generous but the best one was when the guy I was dating introduced me to Derek Ramsay. Hahaha. He knew my type.

Bonus:  Share your New Year’s resolution(s) or reasons why you do not make them.

Resolution: Do more.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday: December 15

This week’s questions are:

1. Agree or Disagree. If people want to have more than one spouse they should be allowed to do that.

If their beliefs allow for them to do that, I agree. Marriage for me should not be a legal process. It should be spiritual one.

2. Do you believe in ethical non-monogamy? YES.

3. Is polyamory something you want? NO. I believe it can be allowed, but it’s not for me.

4. Do you wish that your ethical non-monogamy was a societal/cultural norm?

It is already a cultural norm although not a societal one. I believe that it should not be part of any norm.

I know that it does exist and I accept those who practice it, but there should be a standard norm which is monogamy.

5. If you are in or have been in an open sexual relationship, what are the best bits?

I was in an open relationship and the best part was that you can be attracted to another person and not feel guilty about it. You can engage in sexual acts with other people and not be called a cheater or a liar and yes, not being subjected to interrogation… you can hang and party with your partners without the fear of getting busted. It’s the freedom to do things you’d normally not do in a monogamous relationship.

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TMI Tuesday: December 8, 2020

This week at TMI Tuesday let’s talk sexual feelings.

1. Are women natural seducers or are men?

Both are natural seducers. It is the human nature to be sexual.

2. Which of the following statements most closely matches your sexual attitude?

a. Sex is best when you focus on your own pleasure.
b. Sex is best when I can totally meld with my partner and feel as one.
c. Sex is best when the purpose is that of conceiving a child.
d. Sex is just a behavior; don’t put too much importance on the act, just do it the way you like and need.

3. Do you need to feel emotionally connected to enjoy sex with another person?

Not really. SEX can be enjoyed without emotional connection. It is of pure physical nature. Making love is totally a different story though.

4. Are you allowed to be sexual? Explain.

YES. I don’t see why not. I am a grown woman and I’ve had my shares of good and bad sex, but at this point, it’s up to me to make it as enjoyable as it can be. I won’t accept bad sex anymore.

5. Agree or Disagree. Sex without love is meaningless.

SEX itself doesn’t have to have meaning.

Bonus: Conventional wisdom (but not research) says that women value monogamy more than men. Is this true for you?

No. I believe men and women equally value certain things. I mean, some women are polygamous but they’re discreet about it. And what is monogamy anyway? How would you define it? Is all physical?