TMI Tuesday: December 15

This week’s questions are:

1. Agree or Disagree. If people want to have more than one spouse they should be allowed to do that.

If their beliefs allow for them to do that, I agree. Marriage for me should not be a legal process. It should be spiritual one.

2. Do you believe in ethical non-monogamy? YES.

3. Is polyamory something you want? NO. I believe it can be allowed, but it’s not for me.

4. Do you wish that your ethical non-monogamy was a societal/cultural norm?

It is already a cultural norm although not a societal one. I believe that it should not be part of any norm.

I know that it does exist and I accept those who practice it, but there should be a standard norm which is monogamy.

5. If you are in or have been in an open sexual relationship, what are the best bits?

I was in an open relationship and the best part was that you can be attracted to another person and not feel guilty about it. You can engage in sexual acts with other people and not be called a cheater or a liar and yes, not being subjected to interrogation… you can hang and party with your partners without the fear of getting busted. It’s the freedom to do things you’d normally not do in a monogamous relationship.

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TMI Tuesday: December 8, 2020

This week at TMI Tuesday let’s talk sexual feelings.

1. Are women natural seducers or are men?

Both are natural seducers. It is the human nature to be sexual.

2. Which of the following statements most closely matches your sexual attitude?

a. Sex is best when you focus on your own pleasure.
b. Sex is best when I can totally meld with my partner and feel as one.
c. Sex is best when the purpose is that of conceiving a child.
d. Sex is just a behavior; don’t put too much importance on the act, just do it the way you like and need.

3. Do you need to feel emotionally connected to enjoy sex with another person?

Not really. SEX can be enjoyed without emotional connection. It is of pure physical nature. Making love is totally a different story though.

4. Are you allowed to be sexual? Explain.

YES. I don’t see why not. I am a grown woman and I’ve had my shares of good and bad sex, but at this point, it’s up to me to make it as enjoyable as it can be. I won’t accept bad sex anymore.

5. Agree or Disagree. Sex without love is meaningless.

SEX itself doesn’t have to have meaning.

Bonus: Conventional wisdom (but not research) says that women value monogamy more than men. Is this true for you?

No. I believe men and women equally value certain things. I mean, some women are polygamous but they’re discreet about it. And what is monogamy anyway? How would you define it? Is all physical?

November 24 – TMI Tuesday

1. Which part of your body do you think is the most sexy? Post a pic if you dare.

My lips, I guess. I cannot post a photo because that’s my most identifiable body part.

2. Which part of your partner’s body do you find the most sexy. Tell us about the time you first saw it.

His hands. They are so smooth and soft. I was so stunned to see and hold it. I felt a little shy because his is much prettier than mine.

3. Are you a fan of lingerie on yourself? Or on someone else?

I love wearing lingerie especially on special occasions or first nights.

4. “Fifty Shades of Grey”–  Work of genius or complete twaddle?

As a movie, it is ok for me but I am not into that kind of kink. I don’t know how I’d take being bound to surrender.

5. Would you rather listen to a sexy voice telling you what is happening or watch a sex scene on mute?

Listen definitely. I cannot imagine anything sexual without the sound accompanying the sight… so if I am to choose, listening wins!

Bonus: Tell us about a time you experimented with a fantasy and it did not go according to plan.

I remember when I first used a dildo and I have no reference but Not Another Teen Movie. I thought it will be pleasurable. It was not! Later attempts were a lot better and I finally achieved the actual purpose.


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Happy TMI Tuesday!

TMI Tuesday: October 29, 2019

1. You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbor has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you:
a. Dismiss him/her, you’re in a committed relationship.
b. Continue to flirt, but go no further.
c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo.
d. Let the affair become physical.

2. A male co-worker whom you have heard is great in bed and very well endowed has been flirting with you a lot. He obviously wishes to start a relationship. Do you:
(This question is for women AND men).
a. Make it clear to him you’re not interested.
b. Flirt with him but go no further
c. Mentally undress him and wonder what he’d be like in bed.
d. Let the relationship become sexual.

3. Your significant other is impotent most of the time, showing little interest in you and little interest in being sexual. Do you:
a. Resign yourself to no sex.
b. Satisfy your needs with masturbation
c. Find someone who can satisfy you sexually but remain with your significant other
d. Leave him or her

4. The last time you and your mate had sex, were you:
a. Concentrating mostly on him/her, and you didn’t even orgasm
b. Thinking about your pleasure and theirs.
c. Concentrating mainly on your own pleasure.
d. Used his/her body as a tool to reach your own orgasm.

5. What kind of partner do you prefer while making love or having sex?
a. Tender, loving, slow and sweeet
b. I don’t care, just do me; it’s been a while
c. Tough, take-charge, I like it a little rough
d. Any lovin’ is good lovin’

No bonus question this week.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!