TMI Tuesday – Favorite Things!

1. What is your favorite dessert? Why?

My favorite dessert is Halaya (purple yam). It’s one of the best things in life!

2. What is your favorite nickname to be called?

I’ve always loved the endearment “babe” but it doesn’t stick. It is different every time.

3. What is your favorite nickname for your favorite person?

Same as no. 2

4. Who makes you laugh the most?

My friend Anna. She is the craziest person in the world. She’s got all these weird, nasty stories, that if told by others would be too awesome to be true, but for her, you’d really believe it.

5. What is something common from your childhood that will seem strange to millennials?

Not having a smart phone 😀

Bonus: What is your idea of heaven?

Living a worry-free life with the one you love.


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Happy TMI Tuesday!

NSFW: TMI Tuesday

Pick your next sexual encounter. Only pick one, then tell us why that is your choice.

  • Blindfolded during oral sex
  • Sex in a hot tub
  • Sex in an elevator
  • Phonesex
  • Bringing in a third party

 Blindfolded during oral sex. It feels better not knowing what’s happening next. I only do this with someone I trust.

When could having sex with an ex be a good thing?

I do not have a problem having sex with one of my exes and with someone I used to date (but on open relationship). It’s just sex anyway. It is good to express your desires and achieve them with someone familiar. The only thing that would put it on pause is if I am seeing anyone exclusively. Whether my ex is in a relationship, it’s his responsibility, I believe.

Have you ever had sex in a public toilet? No judgment. (Ooh you nasty!)

A couple of times, but it’s the clean kind.

Car sex is hot or not?

It’s hot for men. But I never liked it, really. It’s uncomfortable.

What is the most appealing thing about you?

I know I look okay… but there’s always someone prettier and sexier than me in school or at the office. I was told by men (friends and former lovers) that what they liked most about me is the way I carried myself and how I make myself get seen without actually doing something. That’s what they say, but I can never see it, I don’t know. I feel like I am the underdog most of the time in this regard.

Bonus: Some time ago in Geneva, Switzerland, a coffee shop opened where you can get a hot, delicious cup of coffee, with a side of hot, delicious blowjob. That’s right after you order your coffee, you use an iPad to select the sex worker that you want to have given you the blowjob. A – Would you visit this coffee shop? B – Would you get the blowjob?

Okay so let’s replace it with cunnilingus on the side of coffee. If it’s in Geneva, I’d probably visit this coffee shop and would get the side offer. I mean, it’s probably a one time experience and I’ve always been curious.

The Chocolate Box

I have just discovered Rory’s site & apparently, he started a new challenge for 2021. It’s called “The Chocolate Box” a list of 18 Questions. This shall be once every 6 weeks of Spicy, Sugary Sweet and Sour Game

Game 1 – Season 1   January 2021

  1. Who was your favorite cartoon character when you were a growing up?  

Tom and Jerry

2. Have you ever had a crush on someone as an adult?  

Yes. I am an adult now and I have a crush on this Filipino actor whose name is JM De Guzman

grabbed from Filipino Times

3. Night or Day Time which is best for you and why? 

Day time. I get to do more things during the day. At night, I’d like it relaxed and quiet

4. Have you ever had sex in deep snow as opposed to a light frosting?  

Never had an opportunity, but I also think I’d never place myself in such a scenario

5. What are three of your weirdest quirks? 

I bring my own cutlery on parties, I do not like mixing different kinds of food in one plate, I had to take a photo of my AC before living the house

6. Can you sum up your personal life for the year 2020 using only 7 words? 

I was extremely annoyed and heavily confused.

7. What’s the most embarrassing position you have ever been stuck in?   

An ex and I were had this friend MAE whose sister came by to hang. My ex casually told me that he finds the sister prettier than MAE, our friend. It’s okay however, he said it in a crushing manner. I was already feeling jealous, so my reply was “she’s not even pretty, MAE is way gorgeous than her.” NOT REALIZING THAT THE SISTER WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME.

8. Some words simply roll off your tongue as if they were honey, what are three of your favorite words? 

Oh my gosh. Shocks and Love.

9. What sweety things do you like to consume for pleasure?  

Rocky Road Ice Cream, Ube Ice Cream and Pinipig Crunch

10. Do you currently have a favorite song and if so what is it? 

11. PJ’s, Tee shirt and shorts, Naked or Other – What is your preference? 

Long shirts and short shorts

12. What is your most favored breakfast dish? 

Steak and eggs with bottomless black coffee

13. Which color is best worn to display your passion with life?


14. If you had to be soaked in a liquid that wasn’t water, what would you choose and why?  

Perhaps, milk?

15. Underwear or Commando? 

Always with underwear

16. Which bed size do you prefer for whatever

California King

17. How quick are you to react to no warning, last minute moments?  

I react quickly and badly

18. You have just woken up …. the first thing you do is?  

Check the time

TMI Tuesday

1. First question relates to the photo above–what is it?

Is it a salmon fillet?

2. Should we be signaling our existence to alien life? Why?

No because we’ve got too much on our plate already. I don’t think we can take more Area 51 kind of shit.

3. What is one thing you do not understand about yourself?

Why am I attracted to obnoxious guys.

4. What weird food combinations do you really enjoy?

I do not real enjoy weird combos. I love it conventional. I find weird food combinations disgusting making it inedible.

5. What are two of your go-to strategies to help make big decisions?

What would my mom do?

Or I’d ask my bestfriend, the wisest YODA-type person in my life

Bonus: How replaceable are you?


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Of Name Calling & One’s Death

The showcasing of the hotel CCTV aggravated the already existent bashing of Christine Dacera, the young woman who was found dead by her gay friends in one of the hotels / quarantine facilities in Manila last January 1, 2021. They partied for the NYE celebration, had too many drinks and there’s the suspicion of having party drugs on the scene although no drugs were found in Dacera’s system. While the PNP made a statement about the case being almost closed— initially declaring that there’s rape and assault resulting to Dacera’s death, the Office of the Medico-Legal said that she died of aneurysm and that there was no rape, no penetration, no semen, and no drugs found in her system.

Her friends were immediately tagged to be suspects. Some were detained. Rewards for those who were in hiding came in – 100,000 pesos, then there’s that Manny Pacquiao bounty worth 500,000 pesos.

News came about that her friends were gay – the ones who were arrested for rape / slay. The CCTV showed how will she was behaving that night kissing her friend and according to the group, she was being naughty and they’re trying to keep her company, keep her steady at least despite all of them being drunk and tired.

That’s what friends do.

She was called malandi, pokpok, pakawala, walwal, lasengga, adik – all the names you can brand someone who drinks and gets wasted.

But the question is si Christine lang ba ang ganun pag nalalasing? (Is she the only one who acts like that when drunk?)

I myself have had one drink too many on several occasions and I am always surrounded by men, not even beki (gay) friends, male (straight) friends.

  • There was this instance when I gave a down payment for an apartment I am to share with a couple of guys somewhere in Quezon City, I’ve only met them that night because the guy was my friend’s blind date and we all ended up in his pad. How did I get the money to pay the rent? Perhaps I’ve withdrawn from an ATM in the middle of the night because I do not carry a lot of cash around.
  • The other one was rolling down the steep mountains of the South. Apparently, quatro kantos (gin) is strong enough to disable my whole system, thankfully, there was a flat surface that stopped the continuous sliding.
  • Another was when I supposedly removed my pants because it got wet. I thought I was asleep at my home. I woke up wearing a guy’s shorts because he had to clothe me somehow.
  • Met a lifelong friend in a place called Alchemy. I went to the ladies room alone and threw up badly and there was that sexy girl in micro mini shorts and black tanktop whose hands held my long hair so it won’t get all soiled up. She sat with us all night. She’s now my bestfriend – 10 years forward.

So in all those stuff, I may be deemed makulit (naughty) due to intoxication but those weren’t sexual experiences. Not everyone who is with an all-male company necessarily is malandi (flirt) and can get raped. Some were just having fun.

Christine’s situation is unfortunate and I am not to comment on an existing case but name calling, really?

A lot of people act differently at home and with friends. Not necessarily living a double life, just living the life!

I mean in my class, some of us who were known party girls got into the Dean’s list and the nice girls ended up being pregnant. I mean there’s no shame in that because every kid is a blessing but yeah, people act differently at home and with friends.

Do not judge because people are people.

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