TMI – 19 October 2021

TMI Time!

Tell us 7 things making you happy right now, and why they make you happy.

a. Scored new loots from Lazada

b. Discovering FB locked profile feature

c. JM De Guzman rumored to be the 3rd party of Aljur/Kylie breakup – I’d think twice too, if it’s for JM.

d. The fact that I’ll be able to see my parents this weekend

e. New shoes. I got an Alviero pair, it’s awesome!

f. Booster shots could be happening soon

g. You Season 3 binge

2. Tell us 5 things you learned last week.

a. Time flies so fast so optimal living in the now is very important

b. 3000 pesos is no longer enough for groceries

c. Shoes are better than purses

d. Green is the best color

e. Contacts had ultimately destroyed my eyes

3. Tell us 3 things that stand out for you in 2021.

a. So much death, it breaks my heart

b. Normalized being back to work but forever cringing on every touch

c. Learned so many words that my notepad is now almost full

Bonus: What is the #1 thing you cannot do without in life?

I have no idea, this is so absolute… there are those of course that I do not want to go on without (and I know them by heart) but saying I cannot do without? Hmm.. probably, the ability to care for myself let’s say if I developed a degenerative disease and it has progressed to the point that I can’t even breathe on my own… yes, that’s it.


It’s been quite a while, since i did one of these…

TMI Questions

1. I’m so jealous, I wish I was _____ . An artist with unlimited ideas

2. When would you seek help from a sex therapist? – I don’t think I ever will seek help from a sex therapist. Do people really seek help from professionals? For real?

3. How do you break up with a friend? – This is a strange kind of breakup, I normally ghost them. I had a friend who formally broke her bestfriendship with someone. It is weird but practical and straightforward.

4. Give us a tip to turn a bad day around. – Sleep on it for few hours. Always works for me.

Bonus: Do you feel drowned by social media? – I have this exact feeling this morning. Last night, IG, FB and Whatsapp were down. It felt great!


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Getting Acquainted

I did not participate into the tagging bandwagon of 2020 but now that it’s over, I kind of missed reading about it. I missed seeing people’s answers.

I saw a questionnaire today, I thought I’d answer it. Hope you would too.

What are the top three movies that you like to re-watch?

I enjoy watching movies so I have practically re-watched everything I want. I will just tell you my most watched movies:

  1. The Matrix
  2. Bring It On Again
  3. The Harry Potter movies

If you could eat one dish for the rest of your life, what would it be?

Pork Sinigang

If you can speak to any person in the world (living or deceased), who would he/she be?

Living – Sophia Bush, Jennifer Aniston, Adam Sandler

Deceased – My dead grandmother

If you could choose one movie director to “direct” your life, who would that director be?

James Lafferty. I liked what he did in Everyone’s Doing Great.

Are you a cat or dog person?

I like dogs better but I am a fish person, actually.

What makes you happy?

Not draining my monthly budget. Finding an extra Spam when you thought you’re totally out of stock. Someone ordering from FoodPanda for me.

What do you wish more people understood?

  1. That jokes out of other’s expense aren’t cool
  2. That TikTok should not be equivalent to soft porn
  3. That social distancing is still required

Name your #1 pet peeve?

I really don’t like it when men gets super vain. Naalala ko tuloy yung Fashion Pulis article about Dominique Roque, people would call him out for being more pa-arte arte pa sa photos nila ni Bea Alonzo.

What’s your favourite movie to quote?

“I’m just one stomach flu away from my goal weight.” – The Devil Wears Prada

If you had a superpower what would it be?

I would love to have Bradley Cooper’s skills in Limitless but not powered by any substance, just me being super!

Hey, It’s Been A While

Yes, it’s been months since I’ve opened this site. It’s not that I am not online, I am present naman in Twitter and Facebook, but I hardly post anything as well.

What happened recently?

My best friend passed away 2 months ago — not because of Covid. He was a victim of a hit and run. He was in his bike, wearing the right gears but then a sedan came out of nowhere, hit him. He was t-boned according to witnesses. The car disappeared. No one was able to catch the plate number, but I was told that there’s a possibility of a footage available from a CCTV in one of the houses nearby. They could get something from there.

We are not old, but, we’re old enough to be asked as to why we’re still single. Like almost, every f**king time. We’d joke about how we’re waiting for each other, but to tell you the truth, that ship has sailed years ago.

We tried hooking up more than a couple of times. We had kissed, like lovers, we were affectionate, but nothing further went on except for that one time, hindi na namin pinag usapan right after, parang walang nangyari siguro, we couldn’t bear crossing that line kaya we’d rather not remember. We’re too good as friends. I wonder if there was really an attraction, or perhaps we’re just both sad at that time.

He was handsome. If you like the eccentric types. Mestizo parang mayaman, pero sobrang hilig sa ukay-ukay saka laging may dalang gitara. May gig lagi? He’d wear slippers all the time, tsinelas pa yun before but these days, sosyal na kami, “slides” na yan. Kelan ko ba sya huling nakita, “ay nung may Covid nung 2020.” Nakitira sya sakin saglit, kasi diba may mga quarantine quarantine, malayo yung office nya, nahahassle minsan yung permit nya, minsan kasi pinapapasok sya sa main office nila, although for some time, we’d only worked at home and it’s pretty funny how he said that he chose me since I was the only he knew who had fiber optic and an extra room at home. I had to laugh. He liked my area because it’s walking distance from his workplace. Mga 5 hours walking distance. Charot. Mga 10 minutes lang. It’s a shame that they do not have a vacancy for what I do, if ever, I would have tried applying.

That one month was fun. We’d eat noodles and bread. We had liquor all the time. Ako pa ba? Ready ako for visitors especially bago magCovid. So dahil walang bisita, naimbak lang. We’d drink cheap liquor, although madaya ako because mahina talaga ang tolerance ko.

We talked deeply (like any other drunken friends), sabi ko anu na, how’s he? He said okay lang sya then he’s asked me kung kumusta naman ako, and I told him, my so-called bf is far away but we’re fine. I am not so sure if he was really my boyfriend (who fast forward to today was not pala – we’ve moved on separately). We had a short moment na natakot ako kasi baka i-kiss nya ako, then super sakit na nang tyan ko kasi kabadong kabado ako, it’ll be like deja vu of the past. Thank goodness. Natawa lang kami both sa vibe. We both recognized how familiar that feeling was.

We promised sa isa’t isa, “pag 40 na tayo and we’re still single… hindi na tayo mag-aasawa okay?” Then we both laughed because the cliche was kami na lang sa finish line dapat… pero we decided, hindi na lang. Surrender na lang kami. Haha.

So pano na yan ano? Ako na lang mag hihintay sa 40? Hindi man lang sya nag 39. Nakakalungkot. Parang ang unfair, pero ganun talaga ang buhay.

I cannot bear show myself sa bahay nila, hindi naman kami nag-attend ng wake given the situation. Maloloka ang mommy nya kasi I am an additional reminder of how her son lived his life. Siguradong magrereminisce galore ulit si Tita. Hindi ko kaya ang ganung kalungkot na scene.

Hay. Sana masaya na sya kahit sa langit, walang beer 🙂

This is my reason #5, for the Thirteen Reasons Why: Bakit Single Ka Pa Rin series

S is the Letter of the Day

Being a music lover, I find this prompt called Song Lyric Sunday quite interesting. We are to post a song based on the prompts posted by the HOST, Jim Adams.

This week, April 18, 2021, we are to post a song that have a girls’ name starting with an S on either the lyrics or title. This was suggested by our fellow blogger Christine Bolton, from Poetry for Healing.

What do I have for this then?

SARA (Starship)

Go now, don’t look back, we’ve drawn the line
Move on, it’s no good to go back in time

I’ll never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two
We’re fire and ice, the dream won’t come true Sara, Sara, storms are brewin’ in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes

Danger in the game when the stakes are high
Branded, my heart was branded while my senses stood by

I’ll never find another girl like you, for happy endings it takes two
We’re fire and ice, the dream won’t come true

Sara, Sara, storms are brewin’ in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time, oh
Sara, Sara, storms are brewin’ in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time for goodbyes

Loved me like no one has ever loved me before
(And Sara) Hurt me, no one could ever hurt me more
(And Sara) Sara, nobody loved me anymore

I’ll never find another girl like you, no
We’re fire and ice, and a dream

Sara, Sara, Sara no time is a good time, oh

Sara, Sara, storms are brewin’ in your eyes
Sara, Sara, no time is a good time, for good bye’s
Sara, Sara, storms are brewin’ in your eyes
Sara, Sara no time like the first time
Sara, Sara
Ooh Sara, why did it, why did it, why did it all fall apart
Sara, Sara (uh Sara)

by: Ina and Peter Wolf